Opponents to sex addiction treatment see themselves as freedom fighters. They are skeptical of anything that guides or restricts sexual expression. But freedom is precisely what the addict does not have.
The Crucible of Christian Marriage
Why would a God who loves us and wants good for us prescribe commitment to a single person for the rest of our lives?
Let's Fight: A Conflict Observed
Healthy marriages don’t have an absence of conflict. We are going to hurt each other. The two feet of bed space between the backs of a hurt couple can feel like an unbridgeable chasm. Every marriage experiences the pain of conflict. I am often amazed at how quickly and easily my own heart can turn from fondness and admiration for my wife to frustration, accusation, and even contempt. But here’s the crazy thing, when we use conflict to move us toward vulnerability instead of isolation, conflict becomes and instrument of intimacy in our marriage rather than a vessel of destruction.